The thing is, I know who I am, I know what I want. I try my best to be a clear communicator. If I like you, I'll make it known, if I don't, it's nothing against you, and we can still be friends. Yet, I get the idea that if you don't give someone "a chance", then you're rude. That you need to wait a certain amount of time to tell someone that you simply had a good time.
I don't get it. For something that should be so simple, dating seems to have so many rules to it. It's like trying to figure out a Rubix Cube, and lemme tell ya something that may shock you, shake things up in your lovely little bubble. All you should be is yourself. If that means you put your arm around your date, then go ahead. If that means you have a DTR after one date, no judgments here. If you have no desire to go on a date with someone, politely decline, and offer to still be friends. Because we could all use some more friendships. We are all figuring out who we mesh with well, we shouldn't be wasting each others time, nor each other's money. Cause being broke is a thing.
Just some thoughts from one constant learner to the next.
Mercedes
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