So today's topic is gonna be about being single. No complaints here though, it will all be wonderful stuff.
It's an interesting discovery when you realize you don't care if you are single or not. At least for someone who had previously always idealized those who were in relationships. I actually really love being single. You just get to be your truest form of self, and are able to do whatever you like. Now, I'm not saying that when you're in a relationship that all forms of self drop out the window, but people are definitely different.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that if anything, please be happy. Be happy single, and be happy taken. If you're not happy by yourself yet, you're not gonna be happy in a relationship. That doesn't work. No one person can healthily be happy for you. You need to provide that for yourself, and then when a relationship happens, you'll be all the happier. I also want it to be written here that if you don't want to give a guy your number, or go on a first date with someone, in other words "not give them a chance", then don't. If you know for yourself, that's all the reason to do what you feel is right. You do you, girlfriend.
In other news, it's now November. How crazy is that? Crazy. I have some exciting plans for November. I'll keep you posted hopefully.
I have some posts coming up, but I'm tweaking them to as near to perfection as I can get. So who knows, when they'll actually get posted. I guess you'll just have to keep reading.
Have a lovely Tuesday folks!
Mercedes
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